I got a real dose of reality today called “The Generation
Gap”. I’m hoofing it across the bridge
that walked daily to try and shed off a few of these unwanted pounds and I was
coming through an affluent neighborhood and then I hear someone yell out at me
from a distance, “You trying to get to the bus stop”? I turned around and there was a silver-grayed
foxed hair older black women who had
pulled over and was going to give a complete stranger a ride to the bus stop
because I was a black female, walking in a rich neighborhood of houses
averaging a million plus and incomes grossing more than I probably have made
within my last five years of working - in their last year. She came from a time where black folks were
only seen walking in these type neighborhoods if they were maids and nannies or
some other position of servitude to the upper-class. And I then I thought to myself how crazy it
must be for her to see me meandering around this community and just to be exercising
and enjoy the views and vistas of the river through the trees and houses,
(without fear or trepidation) of being arrested or harassed. Though I enjoy a certain amount of freedom - black males unfortunately do not; and
that is sad. I know that they don’t want
me walking their streets like I own them but until they put the gate up around the
community – I don’t see why I can’t go about my life as I so choose. They might own the streets I walk on but this
world is my Father’s footstool and I sit at his feet and take from him that “good
part” as Mary the sister of Martha chose to do.
Yes there are gaps that separate each generation and I truly believe
that life is orchestrated that way – in order to keep the balance of things; to
look back in order to move forward into the future.
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