There
basically THREE TYPES OF MEN:
THIRSTY, DESPERATE, AND DETERMINED.
Thirsty Definition: After any and everything. They have no type or even know what it is
that that they do like; they just like chasing for the point of chasing. And they never seem to grow up or out of it. Here we have the perennial cheater, playboy
or lover-boy. He will not even honor
marital vows and tend to come from a long line of players. They’re
flashy, flamboyant, dress-game on point and smell ethereal because of the
fragrances; but it’s nothing by part of his ploy, and ritualistic program. Hurt, has happened early usually in Mr.
Thirsty’s life, thus, his reasoning for not giving a care about anyone else –
only his own feelings count. However, everybody
gets thirsty for Mr. Thirsty sometimes…
But all he has for you is a good time in bed, not for a lifetime. Accept it for what it is and move on. Women, who fall for these types of men, tend
to have a miserable life and it only continues in a downward spiral. You saw Whitney Houston chasing Bobby Brown
down; or perhaps you saw your Aunt or Mom who loved some slick pimp talking
Uncle or Step-dad who had tried you, your sister(s), your cousins and any skirt
that passed by. But, she loved him and
you couldn't tell her anything about him.
She fell for the hook, line and sinker!
Desperate Definition: Hen-pecked! And such a turn-off! The man-up gene never metastasized, so he has
the traits of a child, and not that of an adult. He may be a good bread-winner but being able
to fully satisfy a woman, he will fall short because a “man” typical possesses a certain je ne sais quoi that is inexplicably linked to who is and what God
placed them on the Earth to be; and what draws a woman to him. This is when you tend to see the bi-sexual, gays,
down-low dudes or psychopaths. Desperate times call for desperate measures
in their opinion. They are looking
for love wherever they can find it and whomever they can find it from. These are the Lost Boys… Tragedy of some type struck early in their childhood and
they never found their way back to who they were. The lost will only cause you to be lost. Women, who attach to these men, will tend to
lose themselves because a woman doesn't want to lose her man to another woman; but we surely don’t want to lose one to another
man! Some women can’t deal with that
type of hurt and never find themselves again after being betrayed to the point
of her womanhood being shattered. Just
know woman that there is nothing that
you have done; this is all up to the man himself. There is nothing that you could have done to
save him because he doesn't know how to save himself. Be careful of who you try and save from
drowning. A drowning man can drown you
to, and you were only trying to save him.
Determined Definition: Oh those DETERMINED ONES… They tend
to win more than they lose. As women, we can take a man losing – JUST TRY TO DO SOMETHING, BE ABOUT SOMETHING. These are the type that tells you, as a woman
“that you are his.” And then set out to
do just that! A woman wants to be
pursued with zeal! They are determined
to please their wife and THEIR FAMILY.
These are the kind of men that make women “tap-out” and say “Where did
you come from and where have you been all of my life?” The determined are few and far between but
they do EXIST! Some discover
determination, after they find the muse
that what needed in order to get inspired; and when they do, there is NO
STOPPING THEM! These are the men that love their wives, spend quality time with
their family, care about and tend to every aspect of the lives around them that
per God, is up under his auspices. They
possess a passion that is contagious and captivating. As women, we want to say, “That’s my man and
be proud when we say it” and not only proud but believe it! He’s not Superman,
nor do we expect him to be but he will jump through hoops and cover the ground
he walks on because he knows that being a man
is all that he needs to be. Being a good
man, flaws and all, are what draws a woman to a man.
Learn the traits,
learn the definitions and learn what you are wanting from a man.
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